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How to Swing With a Single Man
When people refer to swingers, most people think of couples and maybe the occasional bisexual women. Single men tend to be discouraged from the organized swinger lifestyle, but a well-behaved unattached male is occasionally allowed to swing.
- Visit local swingers clubs. You can find these establishments listed in your local alternative newspaper or on a sexually-oriented website or publication.
- Look for a nicely dressed, polite single man. A guy needs to have more going for him than a horny attitude to be good in bed. Any guy can be horny. Sometimes it’s the least obvious guy who has the most going for him sexually.
- Be discrete. Even though your guy is single, don’t do it from the chandelier in front of everybody else, unless that’s what you both want. Go to a hotel. Do it in a private room at the host’s house, or take him to your place.
- Avoid attachment. Swingers fall in love with their sex partners occasionally, but don’t look for that. You’re just looking for a good time or you’d be home reading a book.
- Follow rules if you’re a couple. A single man might be out to steal a man’s wife or at least borrow her without permission when the husband’s away. There’s no way to know this for sure, but trust your instincts.
- Let things unfold naturally. You’re here to swing and have fun, so once you get together and agree on ground rules, let your exhibitionist streak run free.
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How to Swing With a Single Woman
Swinging usually involves an exchange of partners between married or dating couples. In such a liberated sexual environment, however, you can bring a single woman to a swingers’ gathering.
- Look in local gay or lesbian classified sections of newspapers and underground publications for possible swinging single women. The classifieds offer a wealth of possibilities and options for the alternative lifestyle crowd.
- Find a social club or community activity that accepts swinging as a way of life and embraces its benefits and freedoms. Never go to an unknown location without telling someone where you are going and with whom.
- Consider open-minded friends as potential partners as a bond already exists that may blossom into a richer relationship. Approach the subject delicately with friends and probe their inhibitions to determine where she might stand on the issue.
- Visit tasteful gay and alternative bars or nightclubs. These businesses cater to an upscale crowd of typically progressive thinkers that embrace the swinging lifestyle without judgment.
- Allow partners to explore the event at their own pace. Some may be more experienced than others and need less reassurance and guidance than newer swinging single women.
- Prepare to gently decline any offer to participate in any activity that may injure or invoke discomfort in your partner. Conversely, try new activities with an open mind to experience a swinging single woman’s full range of techniques.
- If entertaining, provide a safe environment for the swinging single woman. Pleasant, non-threatening surroundings are always a comfort. Consider establishing a “safe-word” to indicate a boundary area for a stopping point. Offer a wide range of lubes, sex toys and adult oriented media to enhance the experience.
- Visit online networking sites like Craigslist, which feature ads from men and women who are looking to swing with couples or singles.
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How to be a Single Male Swinger
Most Swinger Clubs and many individual couples refuse to allow single males to be with them..but..there are lots of exceptions. If you are a single male and you want to get into the swing of things then read on!
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How to Find a Swingers Party
Swingers are married or non-married couples that enjoy exchanging sexual partners. Thanks to the Internet, finding other swingers and swinger parties in your hometown is easy. Should you wish to experiment with this lifestyle, there are many ways to find a party in your area. Read on to learn how to find a swingers party.
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How to Meet Swingers Online
Do you want to meet swingers? Meeting swingers online has never been easier. As easy as it is to search the Internet, it’s equally as easy to meet swingers. By following the steps below, you can learn how to meet swingers online from the comfort of your own home.
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What to Host a Swingers’ Party?
Swinging is a lifestyle that consists of two couples agreeing to have sex with each other’s partners. It is a way for couples to enhance their sex life and explore openly while participating in a monogamous relationship. A swingers’ party is when a group of swingers get together to have sex.
- Ensure that you and your partner are sincerely interested in having a swingers’ party and not just agreeing to please the other. Set ground rules and agree to communicate anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.
- Join a swingers club to become acquainted with other couples who have a swinger lifestyle. Get to know several couples that you would be interested in inviting to the party. Talk with your partner and agree who to invite.
- Keep your invited guests to a minimum, two to three couples is usually sufficient. Ensure that there is enough room in your house for everybody to get comfortable. If there isn’t enough room, consider renting hotel rooms.
- Set up different rooms for certain activities such as group sex or rooms for people who want privacy.
- Provide plenty of refreshments. Keep the alcohol to a minimum; you don’t want a houseful of rowdy drunk people.
- Put out condoms and lubricant for your guests.
- Entertain your guests by playing adult videos and pleasant music. Be a good host by making sure all of your guests are introduced to one another.
- Check in with your partner regularly to make sure he is enjoying the swinger’s party. If he isn’t having a good time, it’s time to end the party. Remember, swinging is done to enhance your relationship not to destroy it.
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Five (5) Rules for Your Online Dating Handle
There are plenty of fish in the sea when it comes to online dating, and all too often, unfortunately-named ones get thrown right back in. Are you sabotaging your dating success with a bad username? We asked the members of the ‘fishing for sex’ and ‘fishing for swingers’ community for dating, sex, and relationship advice—what’s in a name. Their rules:
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Don’t Be Creepy
So you want to come across as sweet. You love long walks on the beach and endless cuddles in front of the fireplace. Leave that to your profile. Yours truly has been victim to online dating emails from a retirement-age MrHugs. It’s not endearing to attempt to communicate your love of spooning in a eight-character username, so don’t try.
Don’t Be Overtly Sexual
If other members feel like they’re being sexually harassed via your username, they probably won’t be interested in learning more about you. A username can be a great way to hint at your hobbies or skills, but keep them out of the bedroom. Your online dating username is not the place to reveal your favorite sexual position, number of past partners, fetishes, or bedroom skills. Save the dirty talk until the first date, at least. Utahmom says “I found this out the hard way a zillion years ago when I picked my very first screen name, Secsegal. I work in finance—the Securities and Exchange Commission—get it? Either people thought it said Sick Seagull or they thought I was a hooker (SexyGal).” Answerology member Chesterdad bluntly adds, “Whenever I see these provocative-looking screen-names from the ladies, they’re either butt-ugly, or obvious sexual come-ons.”
Brag a Little
Answerology member Barbb says that when it comes to reading into dating site usernames, the name is “either what they think they are or what they would like to become.” Love Russian literature? Go with something like BookNerd. But take care not to tell tall tales. Pre-med? Don’t log in as DoctorMike quite yet.
Don’t Be Cheesy
Usernames like “mrloverboy, coolmyjets, muscleman, jlopezlukalike, and hotnready” are total turnoffs, says Answerology member Anonymous. That hottie you’ve been winking at may never get a chance to get your particular brand of humor with a name like that, so when in doubt, err on the side of caution.
Get Creative
If you’re not up for pondering your username for hours on end, most people won’t penalize you for using some variation of your real name. But avoid trying to convey just how normal and boy-next-door you are with a name like RegularGuy23. Variations on this are ramptant on dating sites, and unfortunately so, because they don’t say “normal”…they say “dull as a box of hair.”
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How can we keep things hot?
Q: My guy and I spend lots of time away from each other. How can we keep things hot?
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A: Internet sex can keep you primed for each other. It can be as simple as IM’ing and creating sexual fantasies together to masturbating together. Now there’s even “tele-dildonics”: You plug your sex toy into your computer, and your boyfriend can log on to the Internet and control it for you remotely (or you can control his).
To make Internet sex work, you have to find the mode of communication you’re both comfortable with. If you’re visual, that might be a Webcam; if you’re not, try audio (Yahoo! IM has an audio and video component). If you prefer writing, think about whether you’d rather flirt back and forth, build fantasies with IMs, or trade stories via e-mail.
One of the reasons Internet sex is great is that most people take more risks online. Once you can talk about sex on the Internet, you become better at bringing things up offline. Say you send an IM saying, “I’ve always had this fantasy about balloons in the bedroom.” Your man might be thrilled his girlfriend is kinky. So the next time you bring up your fantasy in person, instead of giving you a strange look, he’ll simply ask, “What color?”
Regina Lynn, sex columnist
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